Our sexual partners can't read our minds. The good news is, they don't have to.
I've been with my boyfriend for around 7 months now, and I love him to bits! We get on so well, but when it comes to sex, I'm really let down. I lost my virginity to him when we first started going...
View ArticleI'm 25: shouldn't I have been ready for sex?
I am 25. I am a virgin. I went on this date with this guy. We were trying to have sex. He didn't put his penis inside of me. I was in pain. I panicked. I told him , I am not ready. I don't know him...
View ArticleHe's Queer, I'm Straight, and It's Great Except...
Help! I'm in a relationship with a man (I identify as a straight woman) who identifies as queer. He's mostly had sex with men in the past (there might have been 1 woman), but this is first heterosexual...
View ArticleQuick Hits: Yet More Kinds of No
I was wondering, can a doctor tell if you've masturbated? And in the case they can, is it possible to mistake it for being sexually active? I'm asking because I have a lot of health problems and I have...
View ArticleOral sex doesn't affect me. Is this normal?
When my boyfriend preforms oral sex on me and "eats me out" it's like it has no affect on me. Is this normal? I mean, he's down THERE... using his mouth... shouldn't that affect me? It's almost as if I...
View ArticleOf Bums and Bellies: When Body Image is Down and Out, Should Sex Be Up and...
My boyfriend and I have recently discussed trying anal for the first time together. I'm perfectly happy to try it apart from a few concerns, most of which I've found answers and explanations to in...
View ArticleIt feels like I have to pee during sex. Do I have a problem?
I know this is a silly question, and I've read quite a few things... but I'm still not sure what exactly I was experiencing when I was having sex the other day.In all honesty, it felt like I was about...
View ArticleBig love, but an equally big sexual disconnect
I'm 20 and I've been talking to this girl for a couple months and she's amazing. When I'm with her all of my pain and suffering that I go through daily is gone. She takes it away with a little smile....
View ArticleMy boyfriend is too stressed out to have sex. What can I do?
I'm 21 and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two and a half years now. We go to the same university and have practically been living together in the same on-campus apartment for one and...
View ArticleSTI Testing, Safer Sex Social How-Tos, Fresh Starts and a Bittervention
Heather: I have a question about STD testing, but it's together with a lot of other stuff, so I'm giving you some of the whole story.My long-term boyfriend just broke up with me, seemingly out of the...
View ArticleHe's Pressuring Me: How Do I Tell Him?
My boyfriend of 2 years is pressuring me to send him nude pictures of myself to him. My question is not whether or not I should send him the pictures, because I'm not going to. It's regarding what I...
View ArticleObtaining Abortion When You Need Funding and a Judicial Bypass
I am 16 years old and already have a 7 month old baby. My son has a lot of health problems, he was born with a lung disease and has holes in his heart. I recently found out I was pregnant again and I'm...
View ArticleWe Really Liked Anal Sex, But Should We Do It Again?
My boyfriend and I, both 18, are very comfortable with each other. We took things slow, somewhat due to my discomfort in the religious section and partly to make it more genuine. Skip forward a bit and...
View ArticleWhat's Sex?
Author: Heather Corinna Introduction: It's obviously important if you're here for information that you know what we mean when we talk about sex, so we thought we'd make it clear. We get asked what...
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Pregnancy Scared?
Author: Heather Corinna Introduction: Worried you or a sexual partner might be pregnant? Evaluate your risk, find out what steps you may need to take next, check in with your feelings and by all...
View ArticleMy girlfriend says she loves me, but doesn't want to be sexual with me now...
I'm transgender. My girlfriend has supported me from the time we got together, celebrating my "transliness", even finding tips to help me transition easier. When I got my packer, she laughed at it and...
View ArticleDid abortion make me unable to orgasm?
I had to go through an abortion at the age of 18 of a 20 week fetus. I had experienced orgasm just once in my life before the abortion. I have not experienced orgasm after my abortion through any...
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Can I Get Pregnant, or Get or Pass On an STI From That?
Author: Heather Corinna with Patricia Hu Introduction: Want a quick way to sort out what sexual activities pose what kinds of risks of pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections? We've taken the...
View ArticleI want to give my boyfriend oral sex, but he's embarrassed and won't let me....
I'm 13 and so is my boyfriend. I know we shouldn't be doing this kind of stuff at this age but just a couple weeks ago we started getting a little more "touchy" and one thing led to another and he...
View ArticleAn Infection Getting Worse and Worse: Can I Just Wait it Out?
I am 15 and I just had sex for the first time last Friday. It was unprotected but he did not cum. The next morning I had pain. The pain continued through Saturday and Sunday. I thought the pain was...
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